The Key to Avoid Fights About Money to Save Your Marriage

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By Taylor Schulte

Studies show that regardless of a person’s income level, fights about money are among the biggest frictions in a marriage and top contributors to divorce.

People often see financial success differently; however, there are things you can do to ensure that friction is minimized so that you can spend more time doing the things you love and building a life together.

Whether you just embarked on a lifelong journey with your significant other or plan on saying your “I do’s” in the forthcoming years, below are my financial recommendations for a happier union.


I’ve been in this industry for years, and yet I’m still surprised by how many people don’t discuss finances with their partners. While some simply prefer not to talk about money, others just don’t know how to go about it. It’s important to note, however, that keeping the financial lines of communication open is essential for success.

There are plenty of ways to communicate about money. For one, having an ongoing financial check-up on the calendar—whether it’s weekly, monthly or even semi-annually—is a great way to touch base and check on current fiscal affairs.

In our house, we call it a financial round table, where my wife and I sit down together and discuss our financial situation. We identify goals and get a clear sense of where we are financially and where we want to be in a month’s time or in five years. Doing so can go a long way to ensure both people are working toward the same goals and minimize any spending and savings miscommunication.